With his book Freed Ego, Péron projected me back into time. Forward and backwards. Over and over again. He made me realize that now is the time to choose my direction. The way I want to go. Not my environment. That my, our purpose here is not to wait for what happens in life. That’s not the reason why we are here. We are here to do things to bring to the world. To inspire. To teach. To touch. That’s our core meaning here. And if something is going wrong, not the way we want it, we need to change direction. Like he said, “If the pain is higher, make the why bigger, so big that it doesn’t matter anymore if you reach it. It only makes sense what you’re doing in the direction to it. It’s the biggest power you can create for yourself. To use the thoughts so you can change whatever you want in your life. I cannot change the world. I cannot change your life. You are the only one.“ Péron van Stralen made a difference with this book. I can truly recommend it to everyone who’s looking for a purpose. Read it so you can reach it. What you always wanted is only a heartbeat away… Ine van Hofstraeten Bestselling Author of ‘Topverkoper in 20 weken, Topverkoper in no-time met de SELL®-methode’& ‘Simpelweg gelukkig zijn’.
I remember being raised with the words, “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” This has served me incredibly well as a successful entrepreneur. However, Péron van Stralen’s work, Freed Ego, challenges what’s behind that force that drives us. I realized that often times my ego was in control and that I was overcoming challenges by force. Instead, there is often a much easier way. As Péron points out, we have the ability to Unlock our 7th Sense, enjoy less stress and actually accomplish MORE. If you’re looking for that elusive work-life balance and are simply tired of having to will your way to get what you want then you owe it to yourself to look at Freed Ego. Dustin Mathews CEO SpeakingEmpire.com St. Petersburg, FL USADustin Mathew Says
Dr. Ron Eccles – Speaker / Life & Business Coaching Péron van Stralen is a man filled with passion for people and life! He recently was a presenter at the “Marketing and Speaking World Summit” in La Jolla California where he ignited the crowd as he shared his passion on “Freed Ego”. It is a book I would highly recommend for everyone pursuing a journey of self development.Dr. Ron Eccles "The Success Doctor"
Opportunities are coming and going. Letting go a lot of them are challenges. You make it all up in your mind. Letting go is working supportive. When you do more things at the same time, like multitasking as people call it, it isn’t easy to focus. You lose focus with multitasking right away. Now what I am experiencing to put myself in total focus on a topic is to speak or write like this post as fast as possible to avoid distraction things. Then the “unconscious” mind is talking and find the best information you want to get out.
Purpose and experience
The things you want to get done in your life are bringing big obstructions. That is how I experience them Now. I can go on and on, which I will do anyway, and try to do it all on my own. When you ask for help to the right people you will be amazing what is possible. The issues you have are mostly the idea or the illusion you don’t want to change. It is mostly the way you look at things. You are searching for another outcome. Change means mostly that you are feeling comfortable doing things in a certain way and don’t want to change because you might be afraid. Be afraid of the needs to get your self in a new habit, a new direction and you don’t now how to finance things.
I didn’t learn that in my younger years. To search for ways to fund things of business to get somewhere or to hit certain goals. My daughters are ‘learning’ that you need money to buy things. They know that for a long time already. We were lately discussing at the dinner-table that having to work and doing some work and you get paid by the hour, you are getting narrow casted. There is nothing wrong with doing things when you get paid by the hour, however it is narrow-casting your thoughts. Always thinking how to get things done and need money to get it done. Now when your thoughts are limiting about you have to work for the money first you will stuck at some points.
Now what is it what I actually want tell is that during the building of my Internet solutions for one of my businesses means that I don’t know how it must be done. Having a lot of possibilities tested and still struggling. Paid a lot of money to different people and organizations and still experiencing that I have to do first myself a lot of work.
The funny thing is when I am going on and busy with building it myself I change my experience on this. Because I am look forward to a big move, a Backboneable movement to get a mayor change done in our world society I see I am still making steps.
Because of my why I defined a couple of years ago, very clearly.
It is all according to my why and the direction I want to go in life. These actions I take, like writing this blogpost does the same to me. It is a step in the direction to get there where I want to go. The experience of now is counting. Even when I am not getting there it still is important.
Did I tel you already where I want to go? I’ll keep it a secret to my next post.
What is your challenge today. How do you want to change? Or do you want others do the change for you?